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It’s Not a Gay Thing…


As I’ve been saying for a long time, it’s an economic issue. Extending these rights would cost government and business a great deal in benefit expenses, and insurance companies would suddenly become liable for payments to millions of people who are not now covered under family plans.

The well-meaning (but still wrong) opponents have been coopted through their church leadership and other so-called leaders, and are being used without even knowing it.

A consumer of current news might imagine that access to same-sex marriage is the most contested issue in contemporary family policy, and that marriage is the only cure for the disadvantages lesbian and gay families face. Both of these observations would be wrong.

The most contested issue in contemporary family policy is whether married-couple families should have “special rights” not available to other family forms. Excluded families include unmarried couples of any sexual orientation, single-parent households, extended-family units, and any other constellation of individuals who form relationships of emotional and economic interdependence that do not conform to the one-size-fits-all marriage model.
It’s Not a Gay Thing…

Author: Bill

Stumbling down the Middle Path, one day at a time.

2 thoughts on “It’s Not a Gay Thing…

  1. I agree, Bill. I was first ex[posed to the inequity of “family rights” in I was in social work grad school at U of L back in the ’70s and it amazes me that nothing has been down about it in all of the years since then.

  2. Good. As muslim, as I have 4 wives, should may marriage be recognized in US?

    I doubt that it ever will, but as far as I’m concerned if you are legally married in whatever country and behave as though you are a family, it should be recognized in the US.

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